If you’re looking for new ways to swap your same old routine, then these exotic positions are here for your next playtime craziness.
Sure, missionary and doggy are classics for a reason… but if there’s no bedroom adventure anymore and there’s too much “Netflix and chill,” then it might be the right time to give your routine a shake.
Let exotic positions enter the scene! Don’t worry. When we say "exotic," it doesn't mean you have to perform sex in acrobatic style.
You can think of this as your permission to get a little adventurous and loosen up, so let’s turn your bedroom into a crazy playground with these dope exotic sex positions.
Ready to Find the Best Exotic Sex Positions That’ll Surely Bring You Closer?
Grab a pillow (or two), clear some space, and maybe keep a glass of water nearby, because things are about to get racy.
Standing O is a Great Start
Listen up, givers: If you’re trying to make your night feel as exotic as possible, but still want to wrap your partner in some seriously delicious foreplay, the Standing O position is basically the headliner.
You can give your receiving partner a cunnilingus or blowjob, and kisses and touches all over their body, while being strapped using cuffs in a standing position.
The giver can make this possible by kneeling in front of their partner, aligning their faces with their genitals, and eating them right. This position can be a great one for a pre-show or be the main show itself.
And here’s the thing: according to Verywell Mind, foreplay actually helps people relax by turning on physical, emotional, and mental arousal, so they’re more likely to reach a satisfying orgasm (and get there faster).
Rock Stand to Show-Off That Stamina
Time to flex those muscles, because this one’s gonna be physically demanding (and you might even impress your partner).
For the rock stand, the giver balances by flipping upside-down, supporting their whole body using their core, and using their arms to steady themselves. Then, the receiver can position themselves, even leaning downward a bit, to match the level of the giver for penetration.
And because the giver needs to support their entire body, the receiver does all the work by grinding their vulva or anus on the giver’s shaft.
The giver can also slip in a few fingers or give their partner’s butt a playful squeeze, and if they wanna turn up the intensity, a cock ring can make them both tremble in sweetness.
Helicopter to Do the Impossible
Don’t let the image intimidate you, because the helicopter can be one of the best positions you can do if you’re trying to hit that G-spot, as long as you do it right.
First, the receiver can lie on their tummy on a comfy surface, and while being face down, the giver can position themselves above their partner in the opposite direction.
The giver can now use their hands to assist the entry, and both can hold on to each other’s legs for more support as they move, and they can do this position whether vaginally or anally, their choice.
The friction can also add some flavor to play, as they glide their bodies together, but please be aware that challenging positions like this often come with risk, particularly mild vaginal or anal tears, or even penile injuries.
If you hear a pop and feel intense pain in your cock, it might be broken, so clean the area if you can, don’t wrap anything around it, wear loose pants, and see your doc in snap, as stated by Health Direct.
The Clapper for That Naughty View
The giver would love this next position if they’re the type who gets off easier with visuals, because it lets them watch their partner's bottom as they thrust.
To do this, first, the receiver can do the yoga child's pose on the matted floor or bed, facing their partner away, next, the giver can sit behind the receiver with their legs open to create some space, so they can penetrate them while they support their body using their arms.
They can either do this position vaginally or anally, and it’s also the best choice if the receiver digs some double penetration, because they can opt for anal toys like this sophisticated golden butt plug while being railed.
The Full Nelson for Intense Sex
The full Nelson sex position is a great one if you both love extreme sex, but keep in mind that not everyone might dig it.
You might have encountered this position when watching porn videos, and it’s not for the faint of heart because it’s usually categorized as hardcore. Because once the giver lies down, the receiver can lie on top of them while their legs are lifted up in the air, mimicking the famous wrestling move.
This move does ask for some core strength from both of you, so if you’re dealing with physical limitations or just don’t have the stamina for it yet, it’s totally okay to skip, especially since it involves a headlock, too.
WebMD notes that this position can be risky, like, we’re talking possible penile injury, breathing trouble, muscle pulls, or even neck strain, so before jumping into the challenge, make sure that you’ve taken all the proper precautions.
Do the Tangle for a New Twist (Literally)
Judging from the image, this position may look bizarre, but once you get the hang of it and done properly, the penetration will be deep, and it makes the giver feel they have all the control.
First, the couple can start by doing the reverse cowgirl position, and after that, the receiver can start to lean forward to let their head almost get aligned with the giver’s ankles.
Next, the receiver can interlock their legs with their partner’s upper body, as they hold on securely to the giver’s legs; the giver can now elevate things using their arms and core, and keep on thrusting as they take control of everything.
This position works for lesbian play, too, and it’s a great follow-up after some scissoring, since it lets one partner use a wearable dildo and keep things nice and deep.
The Bermuda Triangle is Truly Fit for a King
If you both are the type that leaves nothing to the imagination, then this upgraded 69 will let you see and enjoy every bit of it, unfiltered.
To start the deed, the giver can sit on a couch or upholstered chair, whatever makes sitting upright comfortable for them, and after that, the receiver can stand on the couch, spread their legs, and bend forward to create a triangle shape.
Make sure that the receiver's butt is reaching their partner’s face, as they try to reach the giver’s genitals below. Yes, it can require flexibility and some strength, but trust us, it can be super rewarding; while maintaining the position, the giver can also hold their partner’s body to prevent any falls, and let the eating party begin.
Go for the Slide If You Like Getting Sloppy
Another wild, challenging, and exotic sex position on the list, the slide will make everything much deeper and will make your session careless and with less control.
To kick things off, the receiver can lie on a couch or bed with both legs up in the air, then the giver positions themselves facing away from the receiver, places their hands on the floor, and spreads their legs to make room for their partner in between, while penetration is happening.
The giver’s position should look like they’re doing some elevated push-ups, and the receiver can also lift their butt to grind so both of them can contribute to all the goodness.
The Soft Chair to Let the Receiver Take Control
If you prefer a more chill way to be exotic, then the chair sex position can be your next excellent choice; it’s easy to do because all the giver needs is to lie down on the bed, making sure their butt is so close to the edge, while they raise their legs. Next, the receiver can sit on them like they’re a chair, and once the penetration is successful, the giver can grope or guide the receiver’s butt during action.
The receiver does all the work and the up and down movements here, and because their hands are free, this also gives a great opportunity for them to massage their breast, but if they need more, they can opt for a Jecca breast massager to keep things hands-free and let their hands play with other yummy spots instead.
FAQs
Is it necessary for us to be flexible when trying exotic positions?
Not really, because most positions here in our list are pretty much adjustable by using sex pillows, cushions, or even a change of furniture. You may also want to keep at least one person stable by staying close to the bed or floor, but if the position requires more balancing, then you can treat it as a rather advanced move for a beginner.
What makes a sex position feel exotic?
It can be about the angle, power dynamic, or just the way your bodies connect, but the bottom line will always be about breaking the predictable pattern; for example, both partners can stay fully clothed, or use the chair instead of a bed, or just make the moves a bit more difficult, rather than doing the same, plain ol’ thing.
Do exotic sex positions always involve penetration?
Not all the time, and some are even better suited for oral sex, mutual masturbation, using a toy, or even teasing. You can always explore each other’s bodies without making penetration as the main goal, so this can be very helpful if one partner’s tired or recovering from injury, or just simply not in the mood for some pounding.
What if we keep losing the position we want to do?
It’s alright; that’s normal. Some positions may look super easy in photos, but they can feel totally different in real life depending on your body proportions, furniture, and flexibility, and if you keep slipping out of alignment, adjust the angle, add a pillow for support, or switch to an easier variation, or you can also treat these positions as inspiration instead of trying to copy them exactly.
Ready to Try Something New and Goated?
Trying exotic sex positions isn’t all about perfectly recreating what you’ve seen online, but it’s more of stepping outside your usual routine, getting playful with your partner, and discovering each other’s wild side.
Some positions may feel amazing right away, while others may require you to work out and strengthen your core, but not doing all of that is fine, too. Because by using toys, pillows, and different angles, you can make it a lot more comfortable.
If you’re ready to make your next bedroom adventure more excitingly exotic, you can always see BeYourLover’s collection of sex toys, because these items are also exotically pretty enough to catch your eye, and of course, help keep the fire going.
Special Thanks:
Adam England - Writer - VeryWell Mind
WebMD Editorial Contributor - WebMD
If these erotic sex positions aren’t enough, then you might want to check out our other guides to find what really fits, like Everything You Need to Know About the Full Nelson Sex Position, Best Cowgirl Positions for the Plus Sized, and How to Master the Prone Sex Position.
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