Best Positions for Penis Owners to Hit Every Spot (And Try With Your Favorite Toy)

Slide, thrust, and explore, because these positions will turn every inch of your body into a playground!

Have you ever felt like your solo sessions are sometimes stuck on repeat? Same angle, same pleasure, and the same ‘meh’ finish?

You’re not lazy, you just miss on a lot of positions, and no, we’re not talking about yoga poses here, unless downward dog’s secretly your fave.

Pleasure isn’t just about the toy, lube, or fantasy, but it’s about how you position all of it, so now, we’ll check the best positions you can try as a penis owner to make you gasp by hitting those sneaky spots. 

The Best Positions for Penis Owners to Play, Groove, and Get Off

This is your cheat sheet to make your sessions mind-blowing, and whether you’re using your hands, partner, or toys, these moves are all about comfort, control, and peak pleasure.

Standard (Chilling on Your Back)

If masturbation had any default setting, this would be it. Lying on your back makes the effort lower to hit that sweet spot, and makes pleasuring yourself a breeze.

This position might be the best for those lazy sessions, because you’ll just want to relax and let your hands, toy, and fantasies do all the heavy lifting.

How to:

First, begin to get comfy on your back on a soft surface, then lie completely flat, with your upper back and head against the headboard or cushion, and bend your legs a bit to give your toy or hand some access.

And for newbies, you can go for simple-to-use yet powerful strokers like the BeYourLover Fantasy Cup, or this Strawberry-Shaped anal plug, if backdoor play is your thing.

You can also add some lube to help you explore different speeds, grips, and pressure, while watching the action itself, browsing some porn, or closing your eyes and letting your fantasies go wild.

Protips:

You can use a sex pillow to prop yourself up better at an angle to watch what you’re doing in a mirror. This position also lets you adjust your toy’s angle much better, and to prevent the feeling of repetition, you can use slow and fast strokes or change the scenarios in your head.

The Chair Command Center

If your laptop or TV is your playground, then your chair is where the command happens, because this position is great for multitaskers, porn scrollers, or penis owners who just like to keep one hand busy while the other one does the work, and pleasing yourself on a chair is also hassle-free and can be really convenient.

How to:

To begin, you can sit first on a sturdy chair, with your back straight and supported, and your feet flat on the floor, while you spread your legs in a comfortable way to let your balls hang loose on the edge.

Put your chair in the right angle so your screens are easier to use, then use your dominant hand or a rebellious stroker, like this Skull Man, to give you some warm and realistic pleasure, then let your other hand handle the mouse, trackpad, or phone if you’re scrolling, typing, or even chatting.

Protips:

To allow better adjustments, you can use an office chair that lets you swivel, and spreading your legs can also allow better ball play, which can level up your edging session, if you’re into it. 

For added sucking and licking, you can go for licking vibrators like this Forest Fury to play with your balls that just won’t stop. 

Playing with your testicles can give you awesome health benefits, too, because, as written by Gabrielle Kassel of Healthline, playing with them regularly can help boost the male reproductive cells and blood flow in the area.

Standing Tall

Standing up will always be the OG “quick mission” position, because it’s fast, functional, and works well when you’re in a shower.

You can also do this position in front of the mirror, if you don’t wanna bother using your bed, or you’re an athlete who always prefers a quickie in the locker room. It’s where you can stroke your full body all while staying on your feet.

How to:

All you have to do is stand on your feet, shoulder-width apart, either in the shower or leaning against a wall or sink (if you like it wet). Let your cock hang comfortably and grab it using your hand, or use a waterproof toy such as BeYourLover Pulse to keep things shower-safe.

Then, lean slightly forward and push your hips, and feel that pelvic pressure right there? Well, that can only mean that you’re doing it right.

And if you want to explore your back door, you can raise one leg and put it on the edge of the tub or sink, then reach your perineum, anus, or balls. You can also add an easy-to-slip, quiet, and textured anal toy, such as Azul, to stimulate your back entry like a cherry on top.

Protips:

This is another position that’s also great for testicle play, because you can gently tug your balls as you get closer, and tease yourself instead of just blasting off. 

Getting On Your Knees

Getting on your knees can add pleasurable tension to solo play, and whether you’re imagining doing dog style, oral, or just going full on doing a porn scene, getting on your knees lets you use your body’s rhythm while your toy does the work.

It can also be a sneaky way to tone your muscles that you always use during sex, and without realizing, you’re pleasuring yourself while you’re working out.

How to:

Get on your knees and place yourself in front of a sturdy surface like a couch, bed, or counter, then place your masturbator at a comfortable height.

After that, you can slide your penis into a toy and let it grip and suck your shaft while you're kneeling steadily. Best if you use a hands-free and sturdy toy for this, like the Cheeky Plus torso, while you keep a steady kneeling stance.

The weight and the realistic features of this torso will let you experience it like it’s a real thing, so you’ll get unlimited action, like doing it with a partner.

Protips:

This kneeling position also encourages hip thrusting to make your pelvic floor and butt muscles healthy, just think of it like doing some Kegels. 

Yes, you heard that right, pelvic health isn’t just for vulva owners, but it’s important for penis owners, too!

As Healthy Male points out, doing pelvic exercises can help people with penises to control their bladder and bowel much better, and may even help with any prostate issues.

Face Down (Feels Like Real Sex)

In this next position, while facing down, you can go full-animal by grinding, thrusing, or riding your toy.

It’s like a partnered-sex fantasy, but without a partner, and this facing-down position is great for penis owners who like to lose themselves in the middle of action and let their imagination take over.

How to:

To begin, lie down on your stomach on a bed or any soft surface, then, while stretching your legs (or bending them slightly), you can strap or slide into a masturbator, but make sure to position your cock to let it slide smoothly and prevent any unwanted injuries.

Next, you can start pushing your hips forward to the bed, mattress, or pillow to let the toy fully grip your thing as you rock back and forth, and for your hands, you can keep them on the sheets to support your body, or use one to touch your chest, abs, or ass for extra fun.

But if it’s still not enough, you can add a prostate massager to the game, like this TOYCOD ALAN prostate massager, to stimulate the G-spot and perineum at the same time, even remotely.

Protips:

While using your toy, you can also thrust your hips against the pillow or bed to give you a full-body and more realistic feel like doing it with a partner. This position is also great for replaying your deepest fantasies, whether real or imagined.

If you want to level up, other than using a stroker or anal toy, you can also put a cock ring, like this BeYourLover Abe, to help you explore more sensations while you’re already face down, and keep in mind, the more you experiment with angle, speed, and pressure, the more you’ll find the sweetest spots to make you climax better.

Lay On Your Side

Lying on your side is like the Sunday morning of all the masturbation positions here; it’s relaxed, chill, and totally unhurried, so it's the perfect choice if you want to lie more in bed and have extra time to spare. 

How to:

You can lie on your side to begin, then, using a pillow, slide it under your head for support, and keep your legs slightly bent for comfort, and after that, slide your lubed hand or toy around your cock and start with some slow, lazy strokes

For added comfort, you can go for something soft and comfortable, like this BeYourLover Peach stroker to give you powerful vibes while keeping things gentle and squishy.

Then, you can keep one hand under your pillow and let the other roam all over your body, sinking into the mattress, and just let the rhythm build naturally, without rushing to finish.

Protips:

This chill position is great for longer sessions because you’re more focused on the sensation rather than the speed, and with your back facing up, it’s also great for anal play. 

You can try using an anal toy, like this VIREO ROSE P-spot massager, to add another layer while you stroke, or if you want something beaded or textured.

It’s super easy to bring toys in this position. 

Straddling on a Sofa

Just forget all your fancy stools, because your couch is your playground for solo experimentation, and unlike the chair that gives you a more rigid posture, your couch is something more stable, which you can even ride on.

You can sit, straddle, and half-lean to mix the usual sitting with a bit of hip-action and creating angles.

How to:

Sit on the edge, with feet flat on the floor and back straight, then lean forward slightly so your hips are freer.

You can also straddle the sofa lengthwise, with one leg on each side, and let your body rock back and forth, or you can use your hand or a realistic toy, like this Sakura torso, to make you feel that you’re really doing it with a partner. 

Protips:

You can lean or raise your hips slightly to engage your pelvic floor and core, to make your orgasms feel more controlled, or try popping a rolled towel or small pillow under to give your perineum some love and grind as you stroke. 

Find Your Groove and Break The Routine Today!

There’s really no trophy for the “best position,” as long as it vibes with whoever’s having fun with it, so whether you’re lying back like a lazy king, grinding like a bedroom DJ, or kneeling like a pleasure athlete, if it feels good, then you’re doing it right.

But if you’re ready to turn these positions into an upgraded experience, you can always check BeYourLover’s full collection of male toys to stock your bedroom with items that know how to keep up with your rhythm.

Because your solo sessions deserve a cast that’s as fun as the scenes that you’re already imagining.